What to say on a first date



The success of the first date depends not only on what you say, but also on how you do it. Below are the top 5 tips you to the second interview.


Tip # 1 confident body language.

On the first date we can often get nervous because they do not always know what to expect. However, there are several tricks to appear confident, despite the fact that "the heart of the heel out." During the conversation, eye contact, but do not overdo it, it's not a game of "who wins will reconsider." If you feel that your voice begins to tremble, stop for a moment and calmly take a deep breath before continuing to speak. Keep track of your anxious behavior, such as tapping fingers on the table or swinging leg. Stay calm and show that you are happy to be here. And remember, it is also likely nervous).


Tip # 2 Do not be a "chatterbox!"

Sometimes we are so carried away with stories about himself that just forget the fact that they must learn something about him. Let your monologue can help the interesting questions that would show his personality and interests. Here are some ideas to "energize" the conversation. "Does he have any brothers or sisters?", "What books or movies he liked in the past?", "Does he have any pets?", "In some places he would like to travel?". And do not forget to develop the theme answers that are interested and you.


Tip # 3 Respond briefly and optimistic.

On a first date should not give too much information. You just have to know one another, focusing only on the main and positive. For example, if he asks you how you earn a living, but you are currently unemployed. Just answer it that you decided to change my job and looking for a suitable place. Just do not tell him what a wretch your former boss and how unfair they did fire you. It can waft him the idea that you "crybaby" and push him away.


Tip # 4 Be prepared.

In addition to smooth legs and nice hair, you need to know about current events both nationally and in your environment. This can be useful if suddenly there are no topics for discussion. If you're not a fan of the news rather see the headlines on a news site, this will be enough, because men love to explain things in any case. We recommend to avoid on a first date sensitive issues such as politics and religion.


Tip # 5 Do not stay too long.

Do not make the first date of the meeting-marathon and talk to each other all night long, even if you really want. It is always better to leave him wanting more communication, so be sure to reserve a topic of conversation at the following times.